Pregnancy & Delivery

Pregnancy & Delivery

Pregnancy has a life of its own, with you at the center of it. We’ve included a wealth of information to help you through pregnancy and delivery.

 

Support during pregnancy

Sometimes it's easy to forget that pregnancy is a major event in your partner's life too. He may feel anxiety and fear, and may not know how he can best support you through the process. Don't be afraid to ask for help. If he's afraid that having sex could cause a miscarriage or harm the baby, it may help if you and/or your healthcare provider have a frank conversation with him about sex during pregnancy.

If you're feeling overwhelmed, don't be afraid to ask others for help, too. Your family and girlfriends may just be waiting for an invitation to provide assistance. Get more coping tips from one of the YourBabyYourWay.com experts, Vancouver life coach Sharla Vellek.

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Sexual intimacy during pregnancy

Sexual intimacy is a normal and healthy part of a committed relationship. Before pregnancy, you likely felt comfortable being intimate with your partner. Now that you’re pregnant, you may have questions or feel unsure about having sex with your partner.

There are lots of myths about sex and pregnancy, such as:
  • Sex can be harmful or painful during pregnancy.
  • Intercourse could hurt the baby.
  • The baby somehow “knows” that sex is taking place.
Truth:
  • Unless your health care provider advises you otherwise, sex during pregnancy is safe for you and your baby.
  • As for the baby, he or she has no idea what Mom and Dad are doing. The baby is well protected by a cushion of fluid in the womb and by the mom's abdomen. Read more>

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Ask the Expert


Q: I’m pregnant with our third child. Between work, raising our family and trying to keep up with housework and family commitments, I feel overwhelmed all the time. I find myself crying over the smallest things, and just feel out of control for the first time in my life. How can I get my life back? 

A: Being pregnant is the most rewarding, yet most difficult time. I truly believe you will be fine because you recognize that you are overwhelmed. So first, learn to only have five commitments at one time. Second, ask for help right now. Being pregnant is a job. LOL!! Seriously, reach out to a girlfriend, your mom or your husband and tell them how you feel and ASK. For me, asking was really, really tough for awhile until I did it and now I realize how much weight is lifted when I do ask for help. Are your children able to help clean? Can you minimize some of the family commitments for awhile until things feel in more control? Take advantage of this time to let some things go and spend more time with your family. A wise woman of six once told me, cherish these times and let the small things go because they do go away and you will miss them. 

Read more pregnancy coping tips from life coach Sharla Vellek >

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Ask the Expert is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Never delay or disregard seeking professional medical advice from your physician or other qualified health provider because of something you have read here.
 

Yes You're PregnantBook Review:

Yes, You're Pregnant, But What About Me?

by Kevin Nealon

At fifty-three, Kevin Nealon thought he had it all: a massive international celebrity with legions of loyal fans; a fabulous modeling career; hundreds of millions of dollars in the bank; and the most recognizable face on the planet. Nealon had accomplished the impossible: a thirty-year career in show business with only limited trips to rehab. But just like every other celebrity, he felt that was not enough. The perpetually insatiable Nealon wanted more, and for him more meant a little addition that drooled, burped, and pooped (no, not a Pomeranian).

Now, in his first-ever book, Nealon tells the outrageous story of how he battled through aching joints, Milano cookie cravings, and a rapidly receding hairline to become a first-time dad at an age when most fathers are packing their kids off to college. Offering hysterical commentary about his fickle, often hormonal, road to belated and bloated fatherhood, Nealon guides you through the delivery room and beyond, discussing how his past, his wife, and his neuroses all converged in a montage of side-splitting insecurities during the months leading up to the birth of his son. Read the full review >

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Latest Posts Share your story

Women (and their partners, for that matter) encounter a whole new world during pregnancy. Why not share your experiences with other mothers? Join the community today to share your stories. Or select a blog from the list below to read other expectant parents’ stories.

 

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Encouragement + An Assist = Success

Nine days past her due date, Sara Howe was awakened at 3:00AM when her water broke. Thrilled that the long wait was finally over, Sara and her husband David packed up and headed to Southwest Washington Medical Center. By 5:00AM they were comfortably settled into one of Southwest’s Labor Delivery Recovery and Postpartum rooms, ready for action. But four hours later, Sara contractions had still not progressed so her midwife started her on Pitocin. Soon the contractions kicked in and Sara was well on her way.

At around eight o’clock the next morning, it was time for Sara to start pushing. So she pushed. And she pushed, and she pushed, and she pushed. "The first few hours of pushing went by without me realizing the time," remarked Sara. "But around the fourth hour I started to wonder if I was still making progress. That is when the encouragement of my midwife, husband and the Southwest nursing staff kept me going. It was like I had my own cheering section."

Unfortunately, even with all the support and encouragement, Sara’s labor was not progressing because her baby’s head was tilted in the birth canal. Neither Sara or her midwife wanted her to have a Cesarean section after all that work, so her midwife suggested an assisted delivery. Read more >

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